Life Topic

Nope. ed, deku, and I are out of any chance of a direct hit. We're jsut gonna be getting the branching off rain and winds.

Yay for indirect storm winds!

We are, but it's only flooding here.


DERRRRRRP!!! Nova just said that.

Well I lost a good friend tonight. Part of me regrets it. But part of me feels like it's for the best. She's changed a lot lately and has been completely selfish and zealous, and I've put up with all I can. She was a great friend for a while, and I'll miss her. But now she's dead to me.

I know how that is. You did what you thought was best for yourself. Who knows, maybe as you get older, she'll mature slightly and you guys might get to be friends agian

Good words of wisdom Menrow.
Yeah I agree with her. If she's like you said, it was probably for the best, even though it feels bad.

Now I need help. I was talking with my bf and he said something I don't know how to react to it.

"Your fine the way you are. I just implied you'd be even prettier if you slimmed down. Your not ugly the way you are so don't think that."

Since we were going out, I was stating to actully like myself after so many years and felt awesome and stuff, like I haven't felt in a while. And then he goes and says something like this. I don't know what to do. I felt like throwing up all night. I got almost no sleep over it and I refuse to eat anything now. I know its not good for me, but I don't wanna lose him over me being fat and ugly. I just don't know what to do. I thought maybe he was different, but I knew I was stupid to ever try and fall in love. I should have known that nobody would ever fall for me.

What do I do? I'm starting to fall into depression over it. Am I over stressing over it and exaggerating it? Should I break up with him or just lose the weight and keep him. I feel like I'm being a b*Navi*h cause I was annoying him yesterday and probley shouldn't make this topic, but I need some advice. I don't know anymore.

Menrow, a person who would really like you would do so not for your physical appearance, but how you act, like if you care and really like them back. We can't even control how we look, so it's stupid and wrong to judge us just by how we look. Trust me, I know. I'm very low on the social scale in my school, and none of it is my fault. You should talk to him about it. If he really does like you back, he'll know you are feeling uncomfortable about it and he'll say he's sorry. If he still wants you to lose weight, maybe you should break up with him. You don't need to feel bad about it. If he breaks up with you, fine. It just means your one step closer to finding the right one. In fact, you don't even need a boyfriend in your life to be happy, but whatever you want to do is up to you.

Wow, Mario, you talk like you've had years of experience on this. Thanks

Menrow. I say this with all respect.
Calm the hell down.
He was complementing you. He was saying that you looked fine the way you did. Which means that he LIKES the way you look now and is COMPLETELY FINE WITH IT. He was just saying the only POSSIBLE way that you could look any better was to slim down. This wasn't an insult, this wasn't a suggestion. It was meant as a compliment, and I bet a whole ass ton of money if you ask him, he'll agree.
If I insulted you in any way, trust me when I say that I didn't mean it, I was just trying to give some decent advice.

Well jeeze, put the flamming candle in my ass tkun. It doesnt matter now. I knew it was a bad idea to post it on here. When I try to talk about my problems I just start drama. Besides, its our problem, forget I posted anything

I wasn't trying to start drama, I was just trying to help the situation. I didn't want you to feel bad about yourself...
Gah.
I'm sorry for being terrible at giving advice....

T-kun, I wasn't saying the only way she could look any better is to slim down. I was giving her advice for her relationship, not telling her to lose weight. Let's just leave this be now, okay? And no, you are not bad at giving advice. It was a simple mistake.



Menrow, you don't have to feel bad about posting your problems here. Nobody is perfect, and nobody ever will be. This topic was made just so the users could sit down and talk and help them get out of their situation. Don't think you're alone here, we all care about you here, we always will be your friends, and we will always help you out.

I wasn't saying anything about her appearance, I was just suggesting that she misunderstood the intentions of what her boyfriend said to her. But whatever.

It's ok tkun. This was something I should have kept between us too. But its ok :3

Well guys, I haven't been on due to my Drawing habits...(So addicting. Dx) But I got an awesome story:

It goes like this:

I tried to ask a girl to prom, since I knew her for awhile, then people started to bug me to ask her, but sadly, I don't got the balls to ask her, then once I got the courage, she had plans that friday, and the rest of the day, I just hunched down low in defeat.

But then I found one of my other friends, well, she has a crush, but the problem was, who? Then someone guessed her crushes name starts with a "J" (My name starts with that said letter, for those who don't know. =w= ), and she has been acting nice around me, smiling as well, and talking quite a bit with me, so I could be it, but I'm not at all counting on it.

It's ok Silver. Although you couldn't get her this friday, doesn't mean no period. You might get her free some other day, and if you get together, can't get prom this year, then you might have next year, and home coming and other stuff.

As for the other girl, good luck

@ Menrow. May I suggest you read a book called "WInter Girls" trust me, it's help (in a way...)

@The World
Yup, still single and proud of it! Single teenagers are a dying race

I could rant for hours on the subject on my romance life, because of how complicated the situation is, but I won't because A: you probably don't care, and B: Espe could read it. And I don't want that.....

My romance life never existed and probably never will. I know all that it takes to be in a good relationship, I'm a very nice person, it's just my reputation has never been good, so I probably won't ever find someone.

U guys cant say that. It took me 20 years to find someone and I swore I never was. U can do it!

@MW I'm a proud member of that dying race. Teenage relationships just cause way too much drama. My problem is the girl always thinks it's more serious than it really is. I just want to go out and have fun, but she wants a serious relationship.

@Menrow I'm glad to see you're dealing with problems. (I mean that, it's not sarcasm.)

Haha I hate to continue of the topic of love, but I just asked my friend (who I refer to as my "little sister") to homecoming. (which isn't a big seal to me. I just like to go and act like an idiot.) Neither of us could find someone to go with so we just figured "why not go together?" And there's my update.

Oh and I got a shirt that says Ninja Crab on it. That's gonna raise some questions.

Good for you then, Ezlo. Hope you guys have fun.

Love is fragile. Infatuation and obsession is not a good thing, those lead to the ending of love.


I've been through 4 myself. Where there's trust, there's no doubt.

Well I don't trust anyone